Dear John IV

I love this pic I "stole" off the internet. She has an entire dear john website.

Dear John,

Thank you for letting me know the check I wrote for my move has been sent to domestics.  While it’s only $106, that’s significant in my little world.  Last night I had a few minutes to go online and check out the mortgages.  About a week or two ago you proudly told me you had caught up on the mortgages.  That was good to hear as it affects my credit as well as yours.  I even was happy for you and your gang to take a little vacation over the weekend I moved in. https://girlboxer1970.com/2011/07/17/dear-john-ii/

Of course, you weren’t telling me the truth.  I see you made many payments to get out of that $10k hole.  I would expect money will show up as earned income first, before you made enough payments to bring the balance down.  Regardless, the mortgages are still behind.  Though I haven’t received any foreclosure notices https://girlboxer1970.com/2011/03/13/act-91-notice/ recently.  Have you?  Maybe it’s this whole “changing my address” so often the Post Office can’t keep up.  At least I am keeping them on their toes.  Just spoke to my mailman yesterday and he updated the mailbox to Patricia A. Crider and I reluctantly added my previous name, Delauter, because I knew I would still get mail with your name in error.  It takes time to get all these little boo-boos fixed when your stuck in a divorce.

Whoops…sorry about that.  I kinda went off a bit over the whole name thing.  It’s just things like this letter from Wells Fargo https://girlboxer1970.com/2011/04/15/not-horsing-around/.  I want my name separated from you.  It’s so simple John.  Our marriage is over and you have started a new life with a new woman.  Our daughter would like both families to be happy.  If you and Heather can be happy together, that’s great.  Super Dooper Great!  Even if that means we all have to start over, or at least fall behind, then recover.  I can do that and so can you!

Okay, good writing to you.  Now and then I still miss you.  I’m not sure why.

Just looking in on the mortgages and finding your bs,

~P.

 

Comments

  1. Anonymous says:

    I am not sure why either…but is happens. I hope he can at least keep up with the interest for your credits sake.
    DISCLAIMER: This is not a John bash, do not inform your attorney you pathetic piece of shit

    • Anonymous says:

      Okay so i wrote a post to get her to write some more funny lies 1 post and then someone else writes something after me and just because it is under anonymous i get accused of writing that one also but as you can see i am not the only one who writes like that on her blog……so no heather i was trying to egg her on so there that is what a friend does. also no “i” didn’t tell me the site either. …Not hard to google search with the names and boom there it is. also if you have an issue with me it is not my husbands problem. You say i was never a friend well out of everyone you know believe me i was your only true friend that took all your crap and was there for everything and you know i mean everything……wishing you and john the best of luck in your messed up future with this crazy enjoy

  2. Anonymous says:

    okay so i wrote a post to get her to write some more funny lies 1 post and then someone else writes something after me and i get accused of writing that one also, it seem i am not the only one that writes under anonymous….so no heather i was trying to get more for you so there that is what a friend does and no “i” didnt tell me the site either…..not hard to google search with the names and boom there it is. also if you have an issue with me do not involve my husband. you say i was a bad friend but out of everyone you know out here i was the only one true friend you had that put up with all of your crap and you know there was a lot of it and never belittled you once for anything……good luck to you and john on your messed up future with this crazy

    • Anonymous…and there are many of you out there. Sometimes I think I might know, but honestly, I don’t. Especially with the comments above. I’m not even sure I am directly involved in you and Heather’s life but I find it damn amazing that its found its way onto my website. So you are egging me on because something about Heather and John bothers you. You, “Anonymous” were a good friend but now, not feeling the love from Heather or John? Are you wishing Heather good luck with John? Or with me being the crazy writer?

  3. you know who says:

    okay so i wrote a post to get her to write some more funny lies 1 post and then someone else writes something after me and i get accused of writing that one also….so no heather i was trying to get more for you so there that is what a friend does and no “i” didnt tell me the site either…..not hard to google search with the names and boom there it is. also if you have an issue with me do not involve my husband. you say i was a bad friend but out of everyone you know out here i was the only one true friend you had that put up with all of your crap and you know there was a lot of it and never belittled you once for anything……good luck to you and john on your messed up future with this crazy

    • you know who,
      I don’t. really…I don’t know who you are. I may, if you just wrote your name. Otherwise until I “catch on” you will remain 108.11.208.252 because I guess I’m slow today. Ha ha ha.

  4. Im so confused “you know who” most of your comment doesnt make any damn sense??? Guess im slow too! Learn how to type or something ok

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